Summary: In this sermon on the family, we see Jacob’s problem, Jacob’s pursuit, and Jacob’s peace.
There’s an Ozark story about a hound sitting in a country store and howling as hounds do. In comes a stranger who says to the storekeeper, "What’s the matter with the dog?" "He’s sitting on a cocklebur." "Why doesn’t he get off?" "He’d rather holler." (He wasn’t too concerned)
Many today are concerned about such things as foreign policy, military policy, and economic policy. But we as Christians had better be concerned about home policy.
The American family is in trouble today. In some places, there are more divorces than there marriages a year. Children and teenagers are wild and ungodly because of no leadership in the home. The alcoholic
Wife is more common place everyday. Adultery and fornication are common place. The family god is pleasure, and its goal is money and possessions. Its altar is the TV, and the Bible has been replaced by the newspaper, prayer by the telephone, and faith by the credit card. The chief delight is not Jesus but self.
Dr. Jerry Vines said, the situation is desperate, but not hopeless, for the house can become a home, and the man, the woman, and the child can become a family. The key is getting back to God.
I-NOTICE JACOB’S PROBLEM: 35:1A
And God said unto Jacob, Arise, go up to Bethel, and dwell there: and make there an altar unto God, that appeared unto thee when thou fleddest from the face of Esau thy brother.
God speaks to Jacob, calling him back to Bethel. The whole Shechem incident is a result of Jacob going to Shechem instead of to Bethel, where he was supposed to be. We often end up in much difficulty, and bring much difficulty to those around us, because we are not where God has told us to be.
Genesis 34 (quickview)  does not mention God once, and is one of the most sordid chapters in Israel’s history. Genesis 35 (quickview)  mentions God over and over again, more than ten times, plus 11 more times in names such as Bethel and Israel.
A-JACOB HAD A DIRECTING PROLEM IN HIS FAMILY: 34:1-2
And Dinah the daughter of Leah, which she bare unto Jacob, went out to see the daughters of the land.
And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her, and lay with her, and defiled her.
Jacob chose the place he would live for all the wrong reasons. He wanted to be close to the city (Genesis 33:18 (quickview) ), though the city was ungodly. God had called him to Bethel! Jacob’s poor choice of a place to live left his family open to ungodly influence.
Jacob had not only allowed his daughter to go into this godless place but he didn’t know Rachel had stolen idols from her father’s house and taught their worship to their children.
Jacob should have been directing his family in the right direction toward God but he had failed to this.
A judge in a certain southern city was about to sentence a young man to prison. At that time, the father stood up and cried out, “Sentence me Judge, I have been busy all my life making money, it is not my son’s fault, it is my fault.”
It is time that fathers be what God has called them to be in the home and that is the leader, the director.