Summary: Marriage is a sacred institution.
Just a piece of paper-yeah, right!
"Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife:
and they shall be one flesh."
If I've heard it once, I've heard it a thousand times from opponents of marriage-its
just a piece of paper. To that I say, "Yeah, right!" I've never believed that those who
say, "it is just a piece of paper," believe what they are saying. If it is "just a piece of
paper," what are they afraid of?
For many, marriage vows are unimportant. A study cited in a recent edition of Time
Magazine indicates that cohabitation before marriage is on the rise, up from 10% in
1960 to 50% 1998. (From FreshIllustrations
Why would 50% of Americans choose living together without the benefit of
marriage vows? Maybe its because of the cultural climate. Some people don't seem
to take their marriage vows that seriously anymore.
Recently, network television made a mockery of marriage when they asked the
question, "Who wants to marry a millionaire?" and turned a sacred institution into a
for profit game show. Though I didn't see the show, I did see a news report about
it. Things didn't turn out so well for the couple, but really, wouldn't we have been
surprised if it did?
A couple of years ago, I read a news report about a groom that stabbed his wife to
death just hours after exchanging their marriage vows. What was the argument
about that led to murder? Apparently, Louis Deleg, the groom was jealous of an
acquaintance of his bride, so he stabbed his bride, Tina Entwistle to death. Those at
the wedding reception tried to intervene, but to no avail. (From FreshIllustrations
God's purpose for marriage is in startling contrast to the majority view of our
culture. He intended for the marriage relationship to be an intimate, permanent
union. God created woman with marriage in mind. Our text says, "And Adam said,
This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman,
because she was taken out of Man.  Therefore shall a man leave his father and
his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh". (Genesis
In the creation narrative, God looked out over His creation and said the same thing
about every thing he created, "it is good." He did not say something wasn't good
until He turned His attention to Adam. Look at Genesis 2:18 "Then the Lord God
said, "It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for
God's design is for a man and woman to enter into a permanent, intimate
relationship with one another. A relationship like Eddie and Mary enjoy. Let me
read you a letter that Eddie wrote to Ann Landers:
Dear Ann Landers:
On Aug. 14, 1945, the war ended in the South Pacific. That was the day I met the
most beautiful and wonderful woman in the world-my wife. There was a celebration
downtown, and I was kissing whoever came along. Then, I kissed Mary. That kiss
was special, and I immediately put her name and phone number on a handy piece of