Summary: We truly help people grow in their relationship with Christ and ministry skills not with harsh words of criticism, but with words of grace and peace, seasoned with salt.
An efficiency expert concluded a lecture with a note of caution: “You don’t want to try these techniques at home.”
“Why not?” asked someone from the back of the audience.
“I watched my wife’s routine at breakfast for years,” the expert explained. “She made lots of trips to the refrigerator, stove, table, and cabinets, often carrying just a single item at a time. ‘Honey,’ I suggested, ‘Why don’t you try carrying several things at once?’”
The person in the audience asked, “Did it save time?”
The expert replied, “Actually, yes. It used to take her 20 minutes to get breakfast ready. Now I do it in seven.” (Aaron Goerner, Utica, New York, Joke of the Day, www.Preaching Today.com)
Criticism seldom, if ever, works. Even in our sincere efforts to help people, they don’t always appreciate it, and it tends to tear people down more than it builds them up.
Even so, it’s a terrible tendency especially for those of us who have followed Christ for a while. We’ve learned so much over the years. & If we’re not careful we find ourselves becoming critical of those who are less experienced or who just don’t do it the way we have done it for years. & Worst of all, we can become crabby, old cranks that nobody can please, and I know none of us wants that.
So watch out for a critical spirit, because it really doesn’t benefit those we are trying to help, and in the long-run, it is self-destructive.
But somebody says, “I really want to help people. If pointing out their faults doesn’t work, what does?” That’s the question I want us to explore this morning: How can we truly help people? How can we help the young and those with less experience grow in their relationship with Christ and serve Christ better?
Well, let’s see how Jesus addressed that problem with his first disciples who themselves were becoming overly critical. You see, they had followed Jesus for three years, and they had learned from the best – Jesus Himself! So when they see somebody else trying to do their ministry, they stop him.
If you have your Bibles, I invite you to turn with me to Mark 9 (quickview) , Mark 9 (quickview) , where Jesus shows them and us how to really help the young and the inexperienced without destructive criticism.
He didn’t go to the right “school.” He didn’t do it the way we do it, so we stopped him.
The funny thing is these same disciples failed to cast a demon out of a boy earlier in this chapter. Oh, they’re quick to point out someone else’s faults, but they quickly forget their own. At least this man was successful, but they stop him anyway, because, well, “he’s not one of us; he’s not our kind.”
What does Jesus have to say about this?
Men, we’re all on the same team, Jesus says, and I’m going to reward the least little effort of anyone who serves in my name.