Summary: Getting a grip on what I say, so I can be a positive influence for Christ.
Power Under Control
(Christian Survivor Series; Living Godly In a Godless World)
Nancy Stoffregen¡¦s grade school daughter, Emily, fidgeted nonstop during the new pastor¡¦s first sermon. After 20 minutes of sighing and wiggling, she turned to her mother and whispered, "Mom, does this guy get paid to do this?" Mom smiled and nodded her head. Ten more minutes passed and his sermon still wasn¡¦t close to conclusion. Again, Emily tugged at my arm and in a low voice said, "How much?" (Nancy Stoffregen Depa, Geneva, IL. "Heart to Heart," Today¡¦s Christian Woman.)
The power of words¡K
One web site allows us to measure ourselves by the words of others. You can find out how attractive you are by sending your picture to AmIHotOrNot.com. The Internet audience will rate you on a scale of 1 to 10. If this is too intimidating, you can simply choose to rate other people. Since opening on October 9, 2000, 163,000 people have submitted photos and the site gets 10 million page views a day.
James called the tongue a raging fire, totally unable to be tamed. In his opening statement of the chapter he cautions believers to not enter a ministry of teaching lightly. The tongue is a dangerous weapon, and there are lives at stake.
James tells us the tongue is like the rudder on a big ship, or a bit in the horse¡¦s mouth. It is a small thing, behind the scenes, yet the most powerful muscle in the body. It should be used for the highest of purposes!
Use your words to TEACH
George Lucas is Star Wars¡¦ creator. He was given a lifetime achievement trophy at the Academy Award ceremonies in 1992. In accepting he said, I¡¦ve always tried to be aware of what I say in my films because all of us who make motion pictures are teachers, teachers with very loud voices.
(Jeffrey Arthurs, Portland, Oregon; source: Newsweek, (12-18-00), p. 16)
A man once wrote, I overheard my mother passing along to my father a newsy tidbit, concerning a neighbor. "You know you shouldn¡¦t repeat stories about others," I said with mock seriousness. "That makes you a gossip." "I¡¦m not a gossip!" she snapped back. "I¡¦m a news analyst."
(James J. Saunders in Reader¡¦s Digest)
We are all teachers, and we are teaching all the time. Jesus said you shall be my witnesses (Acts 1 (quickview) .8). When I attended New York Institute of Technology, I had a creative writing teacher who encouraged me greatly. I turned in a bad essay ¡V it was full of big words to impress my teacher. It was poorly conceived, badly composed, and grammatically a stench in the nostrils of all my English teachers combined. She handed it back to me without a grade. What she did say was, How about choosing a subject about which you know something? Write it plain, so I¡¦ll understand it.
My teacher wasn¡¦t interested in my vast vocabulary ¡V she wanted to help me grow as a writer. So I went back to the drawing board. I turned in a story about our church youth camping trip. It was ok ¡V even a bit sappy. But her words, written in red on that paper are forever an encouragement: