Summary: Jesus often prayed privately. When he said, “Not my will, but thy will be done.” He did not get what he wanted, but he got what he needed. He had the strength to face what was to come. The time to choose submission is now. If we wait, we may not desire to
“Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.” Matthew 26:39
Our list of prayer keys uses Matthew 26:39 as the text for submission. I generally use the 1984 NIV for clarity, but for this verse I like the classic, “Not my will, but thy will be done.” Jesus himself is the best example of submission in prayer I could find. But the various conflicts and interruptions in the series have delayed a lesson that should have been taught in October to December. At this time of year it is appropriate that we remember Mary’s and Joseph’s submission to God.
Mary was not yet married when the angel told her she would have a child. She knew she was innocent, but what would her family think? She knew she was innocent, but what would Joseph think?
There is no indication in scripture that she hesitated to submit. She may not have said these exact words, but decades before the crucifixion her attitude was, “Thy will be done.”
When Joseph heard that his fiance was pregnant, he debated what to do. He could have her stoned. It was that serious. Instead, when the angel told him what God was doing, there is no indication in scripture that he hesitated to submit. He may not have said these exact words, but decades before the crucifixion his attitude was, “Thy will be done.”
Neither one asked for proof. Neither one put out a fleece. Neither one asked for more time to think about it. Each submitted to God’s will.
In 1915 Charles Blanchard wrote about an old illustration of submission. It's almost a hundred years older now, but it is still a good illustration.
A man was walking by a hedge-row in England when he noticed a young boy on his knees. As he approached, he could hear the boy saying his ABC's. As soon as the boy finished, he started over again. After five or six repetitions, the man was puzzled to hear the boy say, “Amen.”
“Excuse me, but, what were you doing?”
“But you were only reciting the alphabet.”
“Yes, sir. I don't really know how to pray or what to pray for. I decided if I give God all the letters a good number of times, that I would let Him put them together in the right order.”
Dr. Blanchard then quoted Psalm 8:2, “Out of the mouth of babes and sucklings hast thou ordained strength...” I would add that the child is an example of submission and that there is indeed strength in submission. Giving it all to God and letting Him put it together in the right order is a good way to go. “Thy will be done.”
Some people think they don’t need to submit to anyone. Whatever they do, they want to do it without any advice from anyone. Frank Sinatra used to sing, “And now, the end is near; and so I face the final curtain. My friend, I’ll say it clear, I’ll state my case, of which I’m certain. I’ve lived a life that’s full. I’ve traveled each and every highway; But more, much more than this, I did it my way.”