Summary: Our marriages are weak because the tie that binds them is weak, which is Jesus Christ.
Griffith Baptist Church – 1/11/09
Text: Nehemiah 13:23-31
Key verse: Nehemiah 13:27 - Shall we then hearken unto you to do all this great evil, to transgress against our God in marrying strange wives?
Premise: Our marriages are weak because the tie that binds them is weak, which is Jesus Christ.
A young couple decided to wed. As the big day approached, they grew apprehensive. Each had a problem they had never before shared with anyone, not even each other. The Groom-to-be, overcoming his fear, decided to ask his father for advice. "Father," he said, "I am deeply concerned about the success of my marriage. I love my fiancée, very much, but you see, I have very smelly feet, and I’m afraid that my future wife will be put off by them." "No problem," said dad. "All you have to do is wash your feet as often as possible, and always wear socks, even to bed." Well, to him this seemed a workable solution. The bride-to-be, overcoming her fear, decided to take her problem up her mom. "Mom," she said, "When I wake up in the morning my breath is truly awful." "Honey," her mother consoled, "everyone has bad breath in the morning." "No, you don’t understand. My morning breath is so bad, I’m afraid that my new husband will not want to sleep in the same room with me." Her mother said simply, "Try this. In the morning, get straight out of bed, and head for the bathroom and brush your teeth. The key is, not to say a word until you’ve brushed your teeth. Not a word," her mother affirmed. Well, she thought it was certainly worth a try. The loving couple was finally married in a beautiful ceremony. Not forgetting the advice each had received, he with his perpetual socks and she with her morning silence, they managed quite well. That is, until about six months later. Shortly before dawn, the husband woke with a start to find that one of his socks had come off. Fearful of the consequences, he frantically searched the bed. This, of course, woke his bride, who, without thinking, immediately asked, "What on earth are you doing?" "Oh, no!" he gasped in shock, "You’ve swallowed my sock!" SOURCE: Pastor Tim, http://www.cybersalt.org/cleanlaugh
Marriage in our country has been in trouble for a long time.
Many Christian marriages are also in trouble and the numbers are increasing.
o One reason for this is the secularization of the home
o God is not being kept the center figure in the home
Another reason is the weakening of believers in their resolve to marry those that are saved as well.
We have crossed the line somewhere and bought into the lie that this is an area we can be lax in.
And Satan laughs as he proclaims his plan, “Destroy the family and marriage, destroy the church.”
Discuss text briefly
Three marriage principles for Christians
1. Christians Should Marry Only Christians – 23-25
A. Never lower the principles
i. God has established marriage
a. It was God’s standard way back in the garden of Eden
b. One man for one woman has always been what God created