Summary: Best friends are very important. Best friends are our confidants. They are our counselors. They are our PR persons. They back us up when others are against us. No problem is ever as dark when you have a friend to face it with you. Especially when that pe
I begin tonight with a question, “Who would you call your best friend?” For some of us, it is our spouse. For others of us, a sibling is our best friend. For others, a childhood friend whom we still communicate with today holds the title of being our “best friend.”
Best friends are very important. Best friends are our confidants. They are our counselors. They are our PR persons. They back us up when others are against us.
No problem is ever as dark when you have a friend to face it with you. Especially when that person is a best friend.
When one thinks of friends in the Bible some natural friends come to mind
Joshua & Caleb
Jesus and the Disciples – I call you friends
Paul and Barnabas
Paul and Silas
Tonight I want us to focus on the idea of Biblical friendship by exploring the friendship of David and Jonathan. Jonathan is the oldest son of Saul and the heir apparent to the throne – yet because of his father’s sin he will forever be a prince – never a king. Yet his friendship with David is one we should all strive to emulate. Their friendship is best seen in the second part of verse 1 in 1 Samuel 18 “Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself.”
The story of Jonathan and David begins in I Samuel 18, continues with what would be the final contact between them in chapter 23, and tragically ends with Jonathan’s death on the battlefield in chapter 31. It is a story that covers perhaps 10 years or so. And that, I think, is important to remember because the love that God expects us to demonstrate toward others is not a short-term love but a long-term and life long one. Jonathan and David’s relationship was one that remained until death.
There are three episodes in the story of Jonathan and David we need to briefly review before we consider God’s idea for a Biblical friendship.
1. The first episode is seen in I Samuel 18: 1 - 4.
Two things are of note: First in verse 1, we note, “There was an immediate bond of love between them and they became the best of friends.”
Have you ever had that happen to you? You met somebody and you “clicked” with him or her. You immediately liked them. You became good friends, even best friends. That’s what happened here. Jonathan and David liked each other immediately and they became “like two peas in a pod.” Where one was, the other one was close behind.
The second thing to notice occurs in verse 3 and 4. Jonathan made a vow of friendship with David and sealed the vow by giving David his robe, tunic, sword, bow, and belt.
What does this mean?
It means something of deep significance. Jonathan was so committed to David that he gave things of great value to him. Now this does not mean that he was trying to “buy” David’s friendship. But, it does mean that Jonathan was committed to David at any cost and he sealed that commitment by giving David items that were of great value to him.
By the way, remember what happened when Saul gave his armor and weapons to David to fight Goliath? They did not fit! David could not fight Goliath with Saul’s armor because it was too big and cumbersome.