Summary: Marriage is God's plan of which couples who seek, embrace and envision their relationship under His guidance, will enjoy His directions, His protection and His blessings.

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Your Marriage Should Be A Joyful Witness

In taking a Biblical look at marriage there are three truths that must be the foundation of our examination. 1.) Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and do not be harsh with them. (Colossians 3:19; Ephesians 5:25; ) 2.) Wives are to honor their husbands and be a blessing to them. (Proverbs 31: 1 Timothy 2:10; 5:10; 3:11) 3.) Marriage is not an eternal institution. (Mark 12:25; Luke 20:35) Do not waste your blessed opportunities!

The Bible teaches that Christians are living letters to be read by everyone and their call is to live lives which indicates Christ's is written upon their hearts. (2 Corinthians 3:2-3) This especially true of Christians who have entered into the marriage covenant agreement with God. Marriage is God's idea and couples can choose to enjoy relationships which are thriving not just surviving. The Book of Song of Songs hold the writings of wise old Solomon, which express the heart of friends who appreciate a couple who truly love one another, "We rejoice and delight in you; we will praise your love more than wine." (Song of Songs 1:4b) Everyone has been encouraged by Paul Harvey's "Champion Lovers," segments which recognized couples who have been married for many years. High respect and recognition is to be given to couples who have sought God to get them through the trials of life, the temptations of the world and especially for those who have held the hand of a beloved spouse who was being cast into the river of physical death.

Song of Songs, chapter 1-3 teaches about courtship and the passions which are to be enjoyed. A wise couple place their relationship under God's hand so they may enjoy His favors. Proverbs 18:22 has a truth for men, "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord." The Bible holds this truth, "A wife of noble character is her husband's crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones" (Proverbs 12:4) A truth for women, "An excellent wife who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm all the days of her life." (Proverbs 31:10)

God finds delight in men and women who uphold their spouses by speaking well of them and finding delight in one another. The Lord's heart is blessed by couples who reject the common world view which believes only new or forbidden relationships are exciting, passionate and envisioned. Searching for and living out God's plan for marriage enable couples to minister to one another joyfully. Couples who grasp God's view on marriage see common very day shores and living as an opportunity to meet each other's needs, not as a burden.

Couples who desire to embrace their God given gift of passion and intimacy are not influenced by the jaded world view of lust which has twisted God's purpose of sexuality. No were in Scripture is passion and intimacy with your spouse to be approached as two ships passing in the night, only if you have extra time or if you haven't exhausted your strength and energies on something else. Again, several places in Scripture, sexual passion is a gift from God, (Proverbs 5:15; 5:18) which is only to be enjoyed under the Biblical marriage covenant and enjoyed often enough so neither one in a relationship may be tempted by the devil to commit adultery. (1 Corinthians 7:2-7) The most accurate Bible translations exhort couples with, "Let your fountain be blessed..." (Proverbs 5:18) Many who have loved the Lord enough to do a healthy Biblical exegeses on sexuality in the marriage covenant relationship are asking the obvious question, "What is the hold up?" Proverbs 5:19 tells men they are to be intoxicated with the love of their wives and captivated with what she has to offer. Women are to be enjoying her husband's gift of passion for her. (Proverbs 5:15-20; Song of Songs 7:6-10)

The marriage God ordains, Christ is ahead of and enjoys the enablement of the Holy Spirit expresses a relationship for all to see by:

1.) Following The Example of Jesus: He said "Greater love has no one than this, than he lay down his life for his friends. You are My friend if you do what I command.” (John 15:13) Too often, we set our focus on ourselves not seeking the Lord on how to sacrificially use our Spiritual gifts for first serving Him, then second, our spouse. Couples who are growing apart, cold and inattentive need to lay down their lives, to please the Lord and please their spouse.

2.) Men It Starts With You: Our first instruction regarding marriage, "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her..." (Ephesians 5:25; Colossians 3:19) Husbands are told, " good to your wives, honor them, delight in them.... Treat your wives as equals so your prayers [are not hindered.]" (1 Peter 3:7) The Bible says your are not your own, but you belong to Christ and your wife - you cannot give your body to someone else without offending and hurting God. Your adoration, attention and focus is to be first for the Lord and then your wife. Your eyes belong to your wife, this includes all your desires, affections and passions. A husband who loves his wife does not make her jealous in any way, he makes women jealous that he belongs only to his wife. Other woman should be saying, "Your wife is blessed." Your life should express to your wife, "How beautiful your are and how pleasing are your delights." (Song of Songs 7:6) Can your wife say, "I belong to my [husband] and his desire is for me." (Song of Songs 7:10)

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