Summary: God has called us to lead a life of Sacrifice. But before we reach there, we should be able to lead a life of significance, so that we can influence others.
Servant Leadership Part 13
A life of Significance
All of us sitting here this afternoon, know that God has called us to be set apart. However, many of us struggle with the thought of how do we really set ourselves apart. I hope the thoughts that I share during the next 45 minutes will help us in that.
Let us start by reflecting on the type of lives we live. We can categorise the lives into five simple categories.
The lowest forms of life is a Life of Survival: We just go on with the daily chores and move along. We do what is necessary to barely stay alive. Do things because we have to. We are not passionate about anything we do. We don’t utilize our talents. We don’t even want to know what talents we have. We are living out our days, hoping that no crisis or opportunities arise. These people see to wholly believe in what a Darwinian Scholar Richard Dawkins said: “Humans have always wondered about the meaning of life...life has no higher purpose than to perpetuate the survival of DNA...life has no design, no purpose, no evil and no good, nothing but blind pitiless indifference.”
From the Life of Survival, some times we cam move along the continuum and reach a Life of Success: We live for success, financial success, power, fame, (or notoriety). People who live a life of success tend to use everyone around them for personal goals. This person might be terrified at the thought of death, or the idea of being alone. Despite putting on a façade of happiness, these people are always in angst and fear. You might have heard this story. There was a poor man who had just enough money to support himself and his family. He spent his days enjoying modest pleasures and helping others. He came into contact with an extremely rich man who was immersed in his business, worked 18 hours a day, and was a slave to success in everything he did. The Poor man commented to the wealthy man. “ I am richer than you are”. “How can you say so? “. Asked the rich man. “Well” the poor man said, I seem to have as much money as I want, but you don’t seem to have that.” You see a person who leads a life of success is dominated by things around him/her. Yet the Bible advises us “Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions.” (Luke 12:15)
The life of Survival and the Life of Success both form two ends of a continuum of in the value to self. Here we are concerned mainly about ourselves. Of course the Life of survival, does not even add value to one self, let alone to others. The Life of Success on the other hand, is keen on adding value to one self only.
But there is another dimension to our lives, and that could be examined by looking at the third and fourth types of lives.
The third type of life is a life of Martyrdom. Here, one lives to give away everything in the pretext of serving others and adding value to others. One loathes one self, one does not value the gifts that has been given to self, but continuously acts in self deprecating manner. The person who lives a life like this will make everyone else guilty. This is a person who always makes sure to talk about the “sacrifices” that he/she has made, and the purpose of making it clear is to make other people feel guilty.