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Summary: Part 3 of 3...on helping the home teach the children respect

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THE PASTOR’S POINTS

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CEDAR LODGE BAPTIST CHURCH

Thomasville, NC

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April 21, 2002

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So far in this series we have addressed the matters of teaching and requiring our children to respect God, and other people. We adopted a working principle for all three messages:

We must raise our children in a Christian atmosphere, so they become Christians who mature in grace and knowledge, and therefore contribute to changing this world in accordance with God’s will.

This week we will investigate teaching our children self respect.

Self respect comes from having strong character. Say whatever you want about what constitutes self respect, but it cannot exist apart from a strong, Godly character. D. L. Moody said Character is what you are in the dark. [1]

America’s folk philosopher Will Rogers had his stab at defining character; he said, So live that you would not mind selling your pet parrot to the town gossip.[2]

Where does character come from? How does it arrive? After all, everyone has character; not everyone’s character is something about which you’d want to boast. Charles Swindoll, in Growing Deep in the Christian Life [3], tells about a man who bought fried chicken dinners for himself and his date late one afternoon. The attendant at the fast food outlet, however, inadvertently gave him the proceeds from the day’s business--a bucket of money (much of it cash) instead of fried chicken. Swindoll writes:

"After driving to their picnic site, the two of them sat down to enjoy some chicken. They discovered a whole lot more than chicken--over $800! But he was unusual. He quickly put the money back in the bag. They got back into the car and drove all the way back. By then, the manager was frantic.

"Mr. Clean got out, walked in, and became an instant hero.” I want you to know I came by to get a couple of chicken dinners and wound up with all this money here.’

"Well, the manager was thrilled to death. He said, ’Let me call the newspaper. I’m gonna have your picture put in the local paper. You’re one of the most honest men I’ve ever heard of.’

"To which the man quickly responded, ’Oh, no. No, no, don’t do that!’ Then he leaned closer and whispered, ’You see, the woman I’m with--she’s, uh, somebody else’s wife.’ "

So, I ask again, Where does strong character come from? I maintain it is in the hands and lives of Mom and Dad (the home), and our society – but mostly it is formed in the home. It happens in the everyday of life.

I believe we can teach our children to have a self-respect that will build a strong Godly character. It is a matter of balancing discipline and instruction with our own daily example, and it is not the impossible dream, even in a society where ethics and character are not required any more – even with presidents.

As always, God’s word, the Bible, has the answers. As the parts and service manual is to the repairman, the Holy Scriptures is to any parent who would teach his children respect for himself.


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