Summary: What to do when you fuss
A. INTRODUCTION: THE PROBLEM – GENESIS 21:1-21
1. Sarah was protective of “my son” (v. 10) Isaac.
2. Abraham struck up for the son causing the problem calling him “his son” (v. 11).
3. The older brother Ishmael (age 17) was “scoffing” (v. 9, NKJV). The word means taunting which carries physical abuse.
4. Isaac was probably 3 years old, i.e., a toddler.
5. Hagar the Egyptian mother of Ishmael seems innocent, but God accuses her. “Let it not be grievous . . . because of thy bondwoman” (v. 12).
6. For 17 years Abraham had raised Ishmael “wild horse” i.e., playing with the fruit of the flesh.
“Sarah became pregnant and gave birth to Isaac just as God promised. Abraham was 100 years old when he circumcised Isaac who was 8 days old. Sarah said God has brought me laughter, so I named him Isaac which means laughter. Abraham gave a big party to celebrate Isaac being weaned. When Sarah saw Ishmael taunting Isaac, she turned to Abraham and demanded, ‘Get rid of that bondwoman and her son. I will not have him sharing our inheritance with my son Isaac.’ Abraham was upset because Ishmael was his son. But God told Abraham, ‘Do exactly what your wife said because your descendants will come through Isaac. But Ishmael will be a great nation someplace else’” (Gen. 21:1-13, Amplified).
B. GOD’S SOLUTION
1. Note the faithfulness of God. “The Lord visited Sarah as He said . . . and did for her, as He had spoken. For Sarah conceived . . . at the set time of which God had spoken” (21:1-2).
a. What a 50th anniversary present. It confirmed of God’s call.
b. The miracle on Sarah, “The Lord visited Sarah” (v. 1).
c. Normal pregnancy.
2. Abraham obeyed God’s instruction. “Call his name Isaac” (17:19).
3. Abraham completed the sign of the covenant. “Abraham circumcised his son Isaac . . . as God had commanded him” (21:4).
4. Sarah understood God’s symbols. “God has made me laugh with a son named laughter, and everyone who knows what God has done will laugh with me because of a son that causes them to laugh” (21:6, ELT).
5. A husband and wife can obey God and be blessed by Him, yet still have trouble. “Sarah saw . . . taunting” (21:9).
6. A good obedient parent can have a rebellious child.
7. What we see upsets us more than what people tell us. “Sarah saw” (v. 9).
8. Children can make husbands and wives fuss. “Sarah said, ‘my son’” (v. 10). Abraham said, “his son” (v. 11).
What To Do When You Fuss:
• Remember your wedding vows
• Remember what brought you together
• Listen to God, “God said . . .”
• Husbands do the right thing to solve
• Think of why God brought you together
• Think of your future together
9. The solution wasn’t based on who was right or what was done. God had a long range plan for Isaac. Jesus Christ would come through Isaac.
10. Abraham had to get his attitude right. “Do not let it be displeasing in your sight” (v. 12).
11. Don’t put off doing a difficult task. “Abraham got up early the next morning” (v. 19).
12. It is hard to cut off the fruit of your flesh. “Abraham got up early the next morning, prepared food for the journey” (v. 14).