Summary: The power and importance of family blessings cannot be overestimated. When blessings are not forthcoming children ache for them. Learn more with todays message.
Writing in Chicken Soup for the Soul, Ted Kruger writes: “I have many memories about my father and about growing up with him in our apartment next to the elevated train tracks. For years we listened to the roar of the train as it passed by. Late at night, my father waited alone for the train that took him to a factory where he worked the night shift. On this particular night, I waited with him in the dark to say good-bye. His face was grim; his youngest son had been drafted. I would be sworn in at six the next morning while he was at the factory. My father didn’t want them to take his child, only 19 years old, to fight a war in Europe. He placed his hands on my shoulders and said, ‘You be careful, and if you need anything, write to me and I’ll see that you get it.’ Suddenly he heard the roar of the approaching train. He held me tightly in his arms and gently kissed me on the cheek. With tear-filled eyes, he murmured, ‘I love you, my son.’ Then the train arrived, the doors closed him inside, and he disappeared into the night….and I left for boot camp.
One month later, at age 46, my father died. I am 76 as I sit and write this. I once heard Pete Hamill, the New York reporter, say that memories are man’s greatest inheritance, and I have to agree. I’ve lived through four invasions in World war II. I’ve had a life full of all kinds of experiences. But the only memory that lingers is the night my dad said, ‘I love you, my son.’” Oh, the incredible power of a father’s blessing. Who can fathom the power of a parents’ blessing? A wonderful, empowering inheritance, indeed. Yet it is so easy to fail to pass on this much needed blessing to our children. Our text for this morning concerns itself with a father’s blessing.
“For sons and daughters in biblical times, receiving their father’s blessing was a momentous event. It gave these children a tremendous sense of being highly valued by their parents.” It did wonders for their self-esteem. At a specific point in their lives they would hear words of encouragement, love and acceptance from their parents.” In our text, Isaac was getting set to pass on his blessing to his eldest son Esau. Isaac was getting along in years and he couldn’t see very well. So he called in his son Esau and told him that he could die any day. He requested that Esau go out hunting and bring back his favorite venison. After that Isaac promised to bless his son.
Esau’s brother got wind of his father’s plans and he deceived his father into imparting the blessing to him. While Esau was out hunting, Jacob brought in some meat from their flock of goats and presented it to his father as venison. Because his father’s sight and taste had been affected by his age, Jacob was able to get away with the scheme. Thinking Jacob was Esau, Isaac gave the blessing to Jacob. When Esau returned with the venison he presented it to his father saying, “EAT OF THE MEAT THAT YOUR SOUL MAY BLESS ME.” Surprised by this request, and knowing that he had already given the blessing, the father said, “WHO ARE YOU?” When he found out what had happened, Isaac trembled exceedingly and told Esau that he had been tricked into giving the blessing to his brother. Esau was distraught and cried out to his father saying, “BLESS ME, EVEN ME ALSO….”