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Summary: Each of us has some "should haves" and "if only’s" in our past, but we must learn that Jesus Christ is not only the God of our todays and tomorrows, He is also the God of our yesterdays. All of our "should haves" and "if only’s" are in His Hands.

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The God Of ‘Should Have’s’ And ‘If Only’s’

Phil 3:13 Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,

Luke 9:62 And Jesus said unto him, No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.

Heb 13:8 Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever.

I. Introduction

A. Robert J. Hastings, well-known and oft-quoted author, made this statement in his now-famous essay The Station:

1. “It isn’t the burdens of today that drive men mad. Rather, it is regret over yesterday or fear of tomorrow. Regret and fear are twin thieves who would rob us of today.”

B. Life is lived, sometimes regrettably, one moment at a time.

1. However, life is far too short to live in regrets, “should-haves”, and “if-only’s”.

2. To the child of God, He is not only the God of today and tomorrow; He is also the god of “should haves’ and “if only’s”.

II. Body

A. Each of us have skeletons in our closets, mistakes in our past, “should-haves” and “if only’s” that have the ability to haunt us.

1. Speaking recently to another pastor, he remarked “I should have...”

a. You see, even we supposedly infallible preachers have to face the demons of regret from time to time.

2. My response to this fellow minister, however, I believe was inspired by the Holy Ghost:

a. I told him, “God doesn’t live in our ‘should-haves’...”

(1) You see, friend, it has often been stated that “God will forgive you, but He won’t dig up the seeds you’ve sown.”

(2) And while I understand—and agree—with this statement, I don’t believe that God sits around stewing over the mistakes that we’ve made.

(a) And neither should we!

B. Phil 3:13 Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before...

1. Paul had all the qualities, all the pedigrees, the education, the upbringing, the book knowledge that a preacher could possibly want.

a. Yet in spite of all his successes, he still had failures, and he realized that.

(1) 1 Tim 1:12-14 ...though I formerly blasphemed and persecuted and insulted [the Lord]; but I received mercy because I had acted ignorantly in unbelief, (RSV)

b. Paul had found the secret to spiritual success, however, was to forget the “should-haves” and the “if only’s”.

(1) His focus was not on what he “should have” done, nor was it on “if only I had...”

(2) No, my friend, Paul was “reaching forward” to the things in front of him.

(a) Nothing can get you quite out of sync with your spiritual focus quicker than dwelling on the “should haves” or the “if only’s”.

i) But hear me today when I remind you that Jesus Christ is not only the God of your Today and your Tomorrow.

ii) He’s also the god of everyone of your “should haves” and “if only’s”!!!

C. Luke 9:62 And Jesus said unto him, No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back , is fit for the kingdom of God.


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