Summary: How can I move forward when my prayers go unanswered?
How to Wait on a Miracle
Have you ever asked God for something, something good and acceptable, something that seemed like a proper request that He could honor if He simply chose to do so, and then found yourself waiting indefinitely? Quite often, it seems like God’s timetable is completely different than our own and there seems to be no explanation for it.
In the opening pages of Luke, we find an older couple who had lived with this question for years. Their request of God had been simple—grant us a child. It’s a prayer that most every married couple has prayed at one time or another. But for some reason, God had remained silent on this issue for Zechariah and Elizabeth.
Today, we have the benefit of hindsight, but they didn’t. Today, we can look back at the OT and see the parallel. There we find another older couple—Abraham and Sarah—praying for a child. And to further confuse them, God even reveals an incredible purpose for their lives—
I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you.
In all of the Bible, these are the only two couples that are childless and too old to have children. And they both are blessed with children that powerfully illustrate how God is faithful to His promises.
Zechariah’s name means “Yahweh remembers.” God always remembers. Every prayer that went seemingly unanswered, God remembers. Every moment when you felt like the heavens were strangely silent, God remembers. That’s the testimony of Zechariah today: Don’t give up on your miracle—God has not forgotten you.
How do I move forward when my prayers go unanswered?
1. Consider how God is preparing your life.
In verses 5-10, we read that Zechariah was a
priest. He and Elizabeth are called “upright” people who obeyed all of God’s commandments “regularly and blamelessly.” Yet, they were childless.
For Jews, the absence of children was seen as a reproach—evidence of God’s judgment on a person’s sin. How hard it must have been for Zechariah, a spiritual leader in Israel, and Elizabeth, to keep on obeying God, keep on remaining consistent in their faith, and still bear the sentence of a life unacceptable. When you are doing all that God has asked you to do, and He still doesn’t respond to your prayers, that’s hard. But they press on.
It gets to the day that Zechariah is chosen by the casting of lots to burn incense in the temple. There were about 18,000 priests who regularly served at the temple, but only one could go into the Holy Place and burn incense as they prepared for the sacrificial offering. As a priest, you would only get the chance to do this once in your life.
Zechariah didn’t know it, but God had been planning this day from the very beginning. Zechariah and his family were going to be a part of God’s plan to offer salvation to the world. What seemed like unexplainable silence was really God’s work of preparing Zechariah and Elizabeth for this incredible day.