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Summary: Our tongue is a result of what is really in our heart.

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The Real You

James 3:1-12

Bruce Barton: "For good or ill, your conversation is your advertisement. Every time you open your mouth you let men look into your mind."

Someone has said “that great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, and small minds discuss people.” The church that James is writing to was full of small-minded people who gossiped about each other and tore one another apart with their tongues. I wonder if churches today are a bit like that church. In writing to the church, James has more to say about the tongue than any other book of the Bible; not a coincidence as James is about "Practical Christian Living." Remember a few weeks ago we saw James say this in James 1:26, “if anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight reign on his tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless.”

Jesus said in Luke 6:45, “The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks.” (NIV)

Tongue control really is a choice we make. It takes spiritual discipline and Spiritual maturity to use our tongue for the good of others. It also is a heart issue. What comes out of our mouths really says more about what is really in our hearts.

Controlling the tongue is one of life's greatest challenges. Someone has observed, "The reason a dog has so many friends is that he wags his tail more than his tongue."

Let’s understand words are power. The Bible says this in Proverbs 18:21, “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”

(NIV) We either build up with our words or destroy with our words. They bring life to another or kill another’s spirit. And which ever one we love to do that is the fruit produce. Good fruit that makes a positive difference in the world, or evil fruit that ruins lives and destroys the testimony of the church.

Do you remember the saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me?” I don’t know who came up with that but it’s just not true because words can break our hearts. Broken bones can heal with time, but a broken spirit caused by words of death, is not quickly repaired.

Since such harm can happen from words we chose why choose to harm? That is why James says the tongue reveals that people choose to be how they are. The tongue reveals The Real You.

I. The Mark of Maturity (v.1-5) In his commentary Frank Gaebelein wrote: Tongue control? It will never be achieved unless there is first of all heart and mind control…. When any Christian comes to the point of yielding to the Lord-in full sincerity, cost what it may—control of his thought life, the problem of managing his tongue will be solved, provided that such surrender goes deeper than the intellect and reaches the emotions and the will. [Frank E. Gaebelein, The Practical Epistle of James, Tests of a Living Faith. (Great Neck, NY: Channel Press, 1955), 80f].


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