Summary: Why would Jesus show up 4 days late for the funeral of one of His best friends? What was Jesus trying to teach and what can we learn from this miracle/"sign"?
OPEN: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3lp0z981iM (Mark Lowry time stamp: 15:32-16:47)
When the dead sit up… the funeral’s over.
(That’s the last sentence in Mark Lowry’s part of this segment)
In Jesus’ ministry He raised only 3 people from the dead.
1. The son of the widow from Nain.
2. The daughter of a man named Jairus.
3. And the 3rd was one of his best friends – a man named Lazarus.
Now, this is a really odd story because Jesus shows up 4 days late for the funeral. John 11:17 (quickview)  tells us “when Jesus came, He found that (Lazarus) had already been in the tomb four days.”
ILLUS: Now I once showed up ½ hour late for a funeral one time. That wouldn’t have been such a bad thing except I was supposed to be the one preach preaching the eulogy. To be fair, I at least had an excuse for that one: I lived across the state line in a different time zone. The funeral home didn’t think to remind me of the time difference… and it never crossed my mind. I was on my way when I got a call on my cell phone asking where I was.
So I showed up late for that funeral. But I have never DELIBERATELY showed up late for a funeral. And I have never shown up 4 days late any funeral.
BUT JESUS DID.
John 11:6 (quickview)  tells us “when he heard that Lazarus was ill, he stayed two days longer in the place where he was.” Jesus DELIBERATELY stayed away for 2 days after He heard that Lazarus was sick!!!! And He ended up arriving 4 days late for the funeral
Now you know whenever Jesus shows up late for anything - especially for the funeral of a close friend - there’s got to be a reason. But what possible reason could he have???
Well, let’s take a little bit of a look of the background of the story here. Lazarus had 2 sisters – Mary & Martha and they all lived in Bethany – a small village about 2 miles west of Jerusalem. Then one day, Lazarus got sick… and he died.
They desperately wanted Jesus to come, because if Jesus CAME, He could have healed him. But He doesn’t come and Lazarus DIES. So Mary and Martha are both upset and you can almost hear the reproach in their voices when they both tell Him: “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” John 11:21 (quickview)
But some of them said, “Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man also have kept this man from dying?”
SO why did Jesus show up late? The most obvious answer is… He wanted Lazarus to be dead by the time He got there.
Bear in mind, this is the LAST of the 7 miracles in the Gospel of John, and each of those miracles was a SIGN that told us about Who Jesus was. So what’s THIS sign telling us about Jesus?