Summary: True healing in your relationships begin when, in reliance upon God, you recognize your own sin with a remorse that leads to full repentance.
Sometime ago, an ad appeared in a Kansas newspaper, which read: “We will oil your sewing machine and adjust the tension in your home for only $1. (Leadership, Fall 1986, p.46).
Wouldn’t that be nice, getting a quick fix for the tension in our homes or in any of our relationships? As we all know, there are no quick fixes, but the tension in our relationships CAN be adjusted.
It happened for Joseph. His brothers had sold him into slavery, because they were jealous of his privileged status in the family. They think they’re rid of him, but things turn out well for Joseph. He ends up the second most powerful man in Egypt, 2nd only to Pharaoh. The only thing missing in is life is his family back home, but God is about to bring them together in the fullest sense of that word.
The tension is about to be adjusted for Joseph, and the tension in our relationships can be adjusted, as well. The question is: How? How can broken relationships be repaired? How can fractured families be put back together? How can there be true reconciliation when a friendship has been severed? Well, if you have your Bibles, I invite you to turn with me to Genesis 42, Genesis 42, where we see how God begins to do it for Joseph. We pick up the story back home with Joseph’s father and brothers.
Genesis 42:1-2 When Jacob learned that there was grain for sale in Egypt, he said to his sons, “Why do you look at one another?” And he said, “Behold, I have heard that there is grain for sale in Egypt. Go down and buy grain for us there, that we may live and not die.” (ESV)
They were in the middle of a severe drought.
Genesis 42:3-4 So ten of Joseph’s brothers went down to buy grain in Egypt. But Jacob did not send Benjamin, Joseph’s brother, with his brothers, for he feared that harm might happen to him. (ESV)
They may have been able to cover up their crime in selling Joseph into slavery; but under their father’s eye, they could not cover their character. He just didn’t trust them. This is a broken family that God is about to put together.
Genesis 42:5-6 Thus the sons of Israel came to buy among the others who came, for the famine was in the land of Canaan. Now Joseph was governor over the land. He was the one who sold to all the people of the land. And Joseph’s brothers came and bowed themselves before him with their faces to the ground. (ESV)
His dreams are fulfilled! Joseph’s brothers are bowing down to him, just like he saw it in his dreams more than 13 years previous to this, but Joseph is still far away from his brothers. Oh, they’re there physically, but there is no connection between them at all.
Genesis 42:7 Joseph saw his brothers and recognized them, but he treated them like strangers and spoke roughly to them. “Where do you come from?” he said. They said, “From the land of Canaan, to buy food.” (ESV)
God has brought Joseph and his brothers together physically. Now, he is about to bring them together emotionally, as well, and God is using a severe drought and famine to do it. You see, when God wants to bring people together, He often uses adversity to do it.