Summary: A look at two of the biggest mistakes tha the church makes with their youth.
HOW ARE CHURCHES DOING WITH OUR YOUTH? Not great.
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TWO BIG MISTAKES CHURCHES MAKE WITH THEIR YOUTH:
1. WE DISMISS THEM.
- 1 Timothy 4:12a – “Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young. . .”
- Paul here alludes to the idea that people might look down on Timothy because he’s young. It’s a natural idea that has repeated itself down through the years.
- Here Timothy is not a teen, but we can use him to think about our young people.
- We can view them as an afterthought. We can view them as not ready to contribute anything. We can view them as not mature enough to be ready to share anything. We dismiss them.
STEPS IN A BETTER DIRECTION:
- First, we can invite them to participate. We can invite them to serve. We can invite them to use their talents and gifts for the Lord.
- Few of them are going to step up and volunteer on their own, so we need to take the first step. Will we be turned down a lot? Absolutely! But that doesn’t mean they don’t appreciate being considered and that doesn’t mean that we won’t have some who will step forward.
- We have been blessed in our church to have several of our youth step up to do things. In most cases, they were asked if they’d be willing.
- When someone young does step out, it’s essential that we as the adults in the church are quick and generous with our encouragement.
- The Bible tells us that generally we are to encourage each other, but it’s especially true when you have someone who is new to serving. We’re often filled with uncertainty the first time we do something and it means a lot to have someone come alongside and speak a word of hope.
- It’s not enough to tell the person you’re sitting next to that he did a good job. It’s not enough to think to yourself that she did a good job. It’s not enough to presume that someone else will make it a point to talk to them after church and encourage them. Whose job is it? Well, if you’re part of the church it’s your job.
2. WE CODDLE THEM.
- 1 Timothy 4:12b – “. . . but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity.”
- Often we expect little to nothing in terms of solid Christian behavior from our youth. We coddle them and excuse their misbehavior.
- “Well, they’re just kids.”
- “Well, there are so many temptations these days.”
- “Well, it’s so hard growing up now.”
- “Well, there is so much competition for their attention.”
- We coddle them and excuse their complete lack of maturity.
- In the second half of our verse for tonight, Paul doesn’t just stop with the encouragement for Timothy to do something – he then goes on and points Timothy toward excellent behavior. “Set an example,” he tells his younger counterpart.
- Just because someone is young, that’s not a legitimate excuse for them to live a pathetic Christian life. We should not coddle them and expect nothing.