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Summary: How to deal with the whiner and complainers of life

Intro:

Eph 4:29-32

29 Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.

30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.

31 Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice.

32 And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you.

(NKJ)

We may know it by different terms — such as griping, grumbling, complaining, or belly-aching. In the King James version of the Bible, the common term used was “murmuring.” But regardless of the word we use to describe it, whining always has the same syptoms. The dictionary defines it as “an expression of unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or discontent.” Whining is the outward expression of discontent from within. Not accepting and/or enjoying your present reality.

ILL: One afternoon a man came home from work to find total mayhem in his house.

His three children were outside, still in their pajamas, playing in the mud with empty food boxes and wrappers strewn all around the front yard. The door of his wife’s car was open, as was the front door to the house.

Proceeding into the entry, he found an even bigger mess. A lamp had been knocked over, and the throw rug was wadded against one wall. In the front room the TV was loudly blaring a cartoon channel, and the family room was strewn with toys and various items of clothing. In the kitchen, dishes filled the sink, breakfast food was spilled on the counter, dog food was spilled on the floor, a broken glass lay under the table, and a small pile of sand was spread by

the back door.

He quickly headed up the stairs, stepping over toys and more piles of clothes, looking for his wife. He was worried she may be ill, or that something serious had happened.

He found her lounging in the bedroom, still curled in the bed in her pajamas, reading a novel. She looked up at him, smiled, and asked how his day went.

He looked at her bewildered and asked, “What happened here today?”She again smiled and answered, “You know every day when you come home from work and ask me what in the world I did today?”

“Yes” was his incredulous reply.

She answered, “Well, today I didn’t do it.”

What is whining?

An unhealthy way of confronting or complaining about a situation or person in order to help them improve.

Can you avoid whiners? Yes, if you’re dead.

“To escape criticism: do nothing, say nothing, be nothing.” (Elbert Hubbard)

“Any fool can criticize and many do.”

Why do people whine?

1. Negativeness - A bad attitude and a negative view of life. They are use to looking at the bad end of life. They believe that if they don’t point out all the negatives again and again everyone will miss them.

2. Insecurity - Whining and criticism is often a subconscious means to “elevate one’s own self image.” By putting others down, they are inwardly trying to feel more important or that “they know more.” Jealousy toward the spiritual victories of others is often the cause of criticism and belittling comments. Popular ministers of the Gospel are often the target of such tactics.


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