Summary: Though we will struggle with the feeling of anger as long as we live, it is how we deal with it that determines its effect on us. No matter how subtle or severe our anger may be, we can take biblical steps to overcome it and experience God’s peace.
Overcoming The Problem Of Anger
1. Of all of our emotions, anger is perhaps the strongest and most potentially destructive. It is many times referred to as “wrath” in the Bible.
2. Proverbs 27:4 teaches us that anger can be cruel and outrageous.
3. Unbridled anger is the source for outward acts of violence and inward roots of bitterness.
4. Though we will struggle with the feeling of anger as long as we live, it is how we deal with it that determines its effect on us.
5. No matter how subtle or severe our anger may be, we can take biblical steps to overcome it and experience God’s peace.
First, let’s examine three types of anger, exemplified in the life of King Saul.
1. Righteous indignation – 1 Samuel 11:1-13
• This type of anger should motivate us to become involved in opposing evil. Our motivation should be love for God and regard for His honor.
• Warning: Be careful, because Satan can sabotage our good intentions. Some Christians can drive themselves crazy because they are always trying to right all the wrongs of society and solve all the social injustices of the world. God has not called us to do that. Our mission is to spread the gospel and win souls to Christ.
• Righteous indignation is a type of anger that is constructive, not destructive.
2. Resentment – 1 Samuel 18:8-9
• This is anger turned inward (it seethes and boils). It can be a response toward someone who has wronged you, or an unjust situation that hurt you or a loved one.
• This type of anger can be very destructive because it brings with it emotional and mental suffering. There are people who have never outwardly lost their temper, yet they are very angry people.
• It can also be very dangerous. Anger turned inward is like a time bomb waiting to explode. Illustration: Keep blowing into a balloon, and eventually it is going to pop. Resentment can keep growing and growing until a person snaps.
3. Rage – 1 Samuel 18:10-11
• Nobody exhibits rage without first harboring resentment. Saul did not just all of a sudden say, “I think I’ll throw a javelin at David.” He was very angry before this, but the anger came out in the form of rage.
• Rage is explosive and vicious anger that seeks to hurt others verbally or physically.
• It is very dangerous and stands as the most harmful form of anger. It is open war on your circumstances, or on the person you feel extreme anger toward.
• For the remainder of this lesson, when we refer to anger we will be discussing the destructive forms of anger (resentment and rage).
Second, the Bible associates anger with:
1. Pride – 1 Samuel 18:6-8
• This is where it all started for Saul. cf. Proverbs 21:24