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Summary: Loneliness is the #1 emotional problem facing Americans today. You will find lonely people in church, in restaurants, in movie theaters, and in big crowds. In our text, Jesus shares three great truths that will help us to conquer and overcome loneliness.

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Overcoming The Problem Of Loneliness

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Loneliness – a common fact

1. Loneliness is the #1 emotional problem facing Americans today. One person said, “It is the most devastating malady of our age.” It attacks teens, married people, singles, middle-aged, seniors, and – yes – Christians.

2. Loneliness is not a sin, but it is part of our frail humanity. Some of the greatest saints in the Bible suffered from a feeling of loneliness.

• Moses desired for God to kill him (Numbers 11:15), but why? Verse 14 has the answer. Moses felt as if he were facing life all alone.

• Elijah wanted to die (1 Kings 19:4), but why? Verse 10 reveals that Elijah felt all alone.

• Paul – 2 Timothy 4:16

3. What is loneliness?

• It is not solitude. At times this is good for us. Jesus is our example. John 6:15

• It is not being lonesome. This is when we miss a loved one who is gone temporarily, but we know he or she will be back.

• It is not isolation. We can be lonely in a crowd. One person said, “A city is a place where hundreds of people are lonely together.” You will find lonely people in church, in restaurants, in movie theatres, in big crowds, etc.

• Loneliness is an inward feeling that we are unneeded, uncared for, unwanted, and unnoticed. Psalm 102:7

? What is more insignificant than a sparrow? It is unnoticed, isolated, unwanted, and alone on a housetop. That is the way the psalmist felt about himself.

Loneliness – a crippling force

1. All human beings have three basic needs:

• A need to love and share that love with others – Job 19:19

• A need for someone to understand you – Job 19:15, 21

• A need to be needed and wanted – Job 19:14

2. Many people are not having these needs met, and it is producing an overwhelming feeling of loneliness, rejection, and isolation.

3. Loneliness can cripple a person – Job 17:7

• Emotionally – Few hurts are deeper than loneliness. It can be so devastating. It is a leading cause of suicide. People feel alone with nobody to turn to.

• Physically – They say that 50% of heart patients were lonely and depressed before their heart attack.

4. Here are a few of the common effects of loneliness:

• It can lead to immoral relationships.

? People look for acceptance, intimacy, and a relationship to fill that empty void. All the physical contact in the world cannot fill an empty, lonely heart.

• It can impact our finances.

? Lonely people will sometimes go on shopping sprees, thinking that purchasing certain items will give an emotional lift. Many times, people who abuse credit cards and end up deep in debt are lonely people.

• It can cause us to question our worth (to God and others).

? We no longer see ourselves through the lens of God’s Word and who we are in Christ. Satan loves to blind us to our exalted position in Christ.

• It can produce physical problems and even lead to suicide.


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